A memorial, held when you are ready
Unlike a funeral, there is no deadline. Weeks or months later is common, and it gives you room to do it properly.
What helps
- No fixed timing — weeks or months later is normal
- Invite people to contribute a memory in advance
- Somewhere with seating and a way to leave quietly
What Eventrie holds
Who has been told
A list of who knows, so nobody is missed and nobody is told twice.
Itinerary
The order of the day, written once, shared with whoever needs it.
Notes and reminders
The practical list, held somewhere other than your head.
Accepting help
Name the specific tasks people are offering to take on.
Questions
What is the difference between a funeral and a memorial?
A funeral takes place soon after a death, usually with the body present. A memorial can be held any time afterwards, in any form.
How do you structure a memorial?
Two or three speakers, a reading, and space for anyone to say something if they wish. Keep it under an hour.
More in remembrance & hard days
Eventrie is free to use and asks nothing of the people you share it with. Open Eventrie when you are ready.